Why You Should Consider an Unplugged Wedding
Ah, weddings—the perfect day to celebrate love, eat cake, and, if you’re not careful, compete with your Aunt Linda’s iPad for attention during your vows.
That’s right, we’re talking about the growing trend of unplugged weddings, where you kindly ask your guests to ditch their devices and be fully present. It’s controversial. It’s bold. And, honestly, it might be the best decision you make for your big day.

The Pros of Going Unplugged
1. Everyone is Actually Paying Attention
Picture this: you’re walking down the aisle, looking like a literal angel, and instead of seeing your loved ones’ smiling faces, you’re met with a wall of phones and tablets. Yikes. An unplugged wedding ensures your guests are focused on the moment—not their screens.
2. No Rogue Photographers
There’s nothing like Aunt Linda leaning into the aisle to get her blurry, overexposed shot of your first kiss. Meanwhile, your professional photographer is left dodging elbows and selfie sticks like it’s an obstacle course. By going unplugged, you’re giving your photographer free rein to capture your day beautifully (and drama-free).
3. Gorgeous, Clean Photos
Speaking of photos, there’s nearly no editing out that one guy holding his phone above his head like he’s at a rock concert. Photoshop can only go so far. When guests are unplugged, your pictures stay timeless, classy, and completely free of glowing screens.

The Cons (If You Can Call Them That)
1. A Little Pushback
Let’s face it: some people will grumble about not being able to snap their own pics. But honestly? It’s your day, not a social media content factory. They’ll survive.
2. Limited Instant Gratification
Guests might miss the ability to share live updates on Instagram, but that’s what your photographer’s sneak peeks are for. Plus, think of the anticipation—your wedding will be the talk of the group chat when those professional shots roll out.

How to Politely Enforce the Unplugged Rule
- Add It to Your Invitations: A simple note like, “We kindly request an unplugged ceremony. Please put your phones and cameras away and enjoy the moment with us!” gets the message across.
- Use Signage: A cute sign at the entrance saying, “Oh snap, no snaps! Please keep devices tucked away during our ceremony,” sets the tone without being bossy.
- Have Your Officiant Make an Announcement: A quick, friendly reminder before the ceremony starts can work wonders. Something like, “The couple requests that you be fully present and leave the photography to the pros!”
- Provide a Phone Drop Zone: Set up a small, secure table or decorative box at the ceremony entrance where guests can leave their phones. Add a sweet note, like, "Enjoy being present with us—we’ve got the photos covered!"
- Offer a Compromise: Allow guests to use their phones during the reception, after all the key moments have been captured. Announce this as part of the plan to keep everyone happy.

Final Thoughts
Going unplugged isn’t just about logistics; it’s about creating a vibe.
It’s about intimacy, connection, and giving your guests permission to be fully present without worrying about capturing the perfect shot.
Sure, some people might grumble, but when they look back on your wedding day, they’ll remember how it felt—not the Instagram post they didn’t make.
So go ahead, banish the screens, and bask in the beauty of your unplugged, unfiltered, totally unforgettable wedding day.
Aunt Linda will forgive you.
Eventually.
May the odds be ever in your favour,


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